Would you feel sorry for?

Definitely don't think you need to feel sorry for people with disabilities, you may need to put more thoughts into meeting their individual needs but that's it. My boyfriends dad has no legs and there is very little that he cannot do, apart from when he chooses not to do things. It can be quite a shock to see someone with no legs for the first time and they usually understand a little curiosity just make sure you treat them as a person above all else.